How To Respect Hawaiian Culture: A Traveler’s Guide

Hawaiian culture isn’t just a beautiful vibe or a scenic backdrop; it’s truly the heartbeat of the islands. Thanks to my work, I’ve been lucky enough to spend more and more time in Hawaii, and honestly, each trip leaves me in awe of just how much there is to learn about the traditions and values that make this place so special. Hawaiian culture is built on deep respect for the land, the people, and this incredible sense of community that’s unlike anywhere else I’ve been.

Traveling here isn’t just about enjoying the beaches or eating your weight in shave ice (although, yes, do that too). It’s about embracing the aloha spirit, practicing kuleana (responsibility), and being a good steward of the land and its culture. I’ve put together this guide to show you how to make your trip not just unforgettable but meaningful.

The Foundations of Hawaiian Culture

Hawaiian culture is deeply rooted in a connection to the land, the people, and a way of life that prioritizes respect and community. One of the first things to understand is that aloha is more than just a greeting—it’s a philosophy. It represents kindness, patience, and respect, shaping the way locals interact with one another and with visitors.

Language is another essential part of Hawaiian culture. At one point, the Hawaiian language (ʻŌleo Hawaiʻi) was nearly lost, but in recent decades, there has been a strong revival through immersion schools and cultural programs. Learning a few words, like mahalo (thank you) or mālama (to care for), is a small effort that can make a big difference in showing respect for the culture.

Hula and chant (oli) are also significant traditions. More than just performances, they are forms of storytelling, preserving history and values through movement and song. Watching hula with this understanding makes it even more powerful—it’s an art form that carries deep cultural significance.

And then, of course, there’s the land. The concept of aloha ʻāina means “love of the land,” and it’s more than just poetic—it’s a way of life. Hawaiians have long practiced sustainability, from taro farming to protecting marine life. Spending time here offers a reminder of how we can all be better stewards of our environment.

Values like mālama (care), kuleana (responsibility), and laulima (working together) are central to Hawaiian culture. They’re not just words; they guide daily life. And as visitors, we have the opportunity to embrace these values during our stay.

Planning a Culturally Respectful Trip to Hawaii

Making your visit to Hawaii more meaningful starts before you even arrive. Here are some ways to plan responsibly:

Learn About Hawaii’s History

Understanding the history of the Hawaiian Kingdom, its overthrow, and the ongoing cultural renaissance adds depth to your experience. A little research can shift your perspective and help you see Hawaii beyond its tourist appeal. Here are some book recommendations to get you started: 

• Hawaii’s Story by Hawaii’s Queen by Liliuokalani, Queen of Hawaii
• Kū Kanaka—Stand Tall: A Search for Hawaiian Values by George S. Kanahele 
• From a Native Daughter: Colonialism and Sovereignty in Hawaii by Haunani-Kay Trask

Support Local Businesses

Choosing locally-owned hotels, restaurants, and shops directly benefits the community. Staying at a boutique hotel or B&B instead of a large resort often provides a more authentic experience and a deeper connection to the local culture. For a great locally-owned option, consider Nāpili Village Hotel, which offers a warm, welcoming atmosphere and easy access to the stunning beaches of Maui.

Participate in Cultural Activities

Engage in activities that celebrate Hawaiian traditions:

• Attend a traditional luau that honors Hawaiian history, such as the locally-owned Nutridge Luau, which offers an intimate and authentic cultural experience with breathtaking views and storytelling.
• Take a lei-making class or learn to cook a Hawaiian dish, such as a traditional poke bowl or laulau, with a local chef. I really liked Hawaiian Style Cooking Class—it’s a fantastic way to immerse yourself in the flavors and techniques of authentic island cuisine.
• Join a guided cultural tour to gain insight from locals, such as an ahupuaʻa tour to understand ancient Hawaiian land management practices. Hoʻomau Oʻahu Tours is a fantastic option, offering immersive experiences that highlight the island’s history, culture, and connection to the land.

Pack Thoughtfully

• Bring reef-safe sunscreen to protect Hawaii’s marine life.
• Use reusable water bottles and bags to minimize waste.
• Pack with sustainability in mind to reduce your impact.

Practicing Kuleana: Do’s and Don’ts for Travelers in Hawaii

Hawaii’s natural beauty is breathtaking, but it’s more than just a postcard-perfect destination—it’s a place with deep cultural and environmental significance. Practicing kuleana means taking responsibility for how we treat the land and the community while visiting.

Here are some key ways to be a responsible traveler:

Do:

• Respect the environment: Stay on marked trails, avoid littering, and opt for reusable water bottles instead of single-use plastics. Check out my guide on planning an eco-friendly trip to Hawaii for more tips.
• Be mindful at the beach: Avoid disturbing wildlife, and remember that sea turtles and monk seals need their space.
• Follow local guidelines: Whether it’s reef-safe sunscreen laws or guidelines for sacred sites, respecting local rules helps preserve Hawaii for future generations.
• Ask for permission before entering sacred or private areas. Respect for the land and its significance is essential.
• Learn basic Hawaiian phrases—a simple aloha or mahalo goes a long way in showing appreciation.
• Join a cleanup or volunteer program. Whether it’s a beach cleanup or community project, giving back is a great way to show aloha.
• Respect sacred sites. Places like heiau (temples) and Iolani Palace hold deep historical and cultural meaning. Follow posted guidelines and stay on designated paths.

Don’t:

• Take rocks or sand as souvenirs. Not only is it considered disrespectful, but it’s also believed to bring bad luck.
• Interrupt cultural events or ceremonies. If you come across a hula performance or chant, observe respectfully and avoid disrupting the moment.
• Assume all spaces are for tourists. Some traditions and sites are private or reserved for locals, and it’s important to honor those boundaries.

By keeping these do’s and don’ts in mind, you can ensure your visit to Hawaii is respectful, enriching, and leaves a positive impact on the local community and environment.

Hawaiian culture is a treasure that makes the islands truly unique. By learning about and respecting its traditions, values, and history, you can enrich your experience while also giving back to the local community. Traveling with aloha and mālama in mind ensures that Hawaii remains a place of beauty and significance for generations to come. Let’s make every visit a bridge of understanding and respect.

If you’re planning your first trip to Hawaii, be sure to check out my Hawaii Travel Guide for Beginners for essential tips on where to go, what to do, and how to make the most of your island adventure!